One Simple Question

By Shewanda Riley
Special to Texas Metro News

“So, when are you going to start writing for me?”

I had no idea that this one simple question posed to me in early 2000 by Jim Washington, at that time publisher and owner of the Dallas Weekly, would have a two-decade long impact on my professional and personal life.

At the time of the question, I was working full time in radio and had not shared my desire to write with anyone.

I wondered, “How did he know to ask me that question at that time?”

It took me a few minutes to respond as I was amazed that he asked me about writing at the same time I’d been praying about opportunities to write.

Unsure of what to write, I asked him what kind of writing he was looking for.

Washington patiently explained the kinds of stories the newspaper published but encouraged me to write from the heart.

Following his advice, I wrote columns that eventually became my first book which then led to writing workshops, writing conferences, singles conferences, and then a second book.

I share all of this not to brag about my achievements but more importantly to show how one simple question changed my life. As others learned about the passing of Jim Washington, they also shared similar stories on social media of how he touched their lives with his mentorship and compassion.

Reading those posts reminded me that transformation often starts not with big things but with small things like a simple question. The initial shock and sadness of hearing of his death has been replaced with a deep sense of gratitude for having had the opportunity to work with him.

Rest in peace, Jim Washington.

May his memory continue to be a blessing!

Shewanda Riley, PhD is a Fort Worth, Texas-based author.