How This Dallas Mom Is Helping Protect Black Mothers And Their Babies

BY Dr. Froswa Booker-Drew

Black women and their babies continue to face disparities in maternal and infant mortality rates. According to the CDC, the national rate for pregnancy-related deaths for Black women is four to five times higher than their White counterparts. In Texas, the CDC found that infants born to Black mothers die at rates twice as high as White babies in recent years.

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Cessilye Smith, founder of Abide Women’s Health Services in South Dallas, is working to help beat those odds. Smith started Abide to improve birth outcomes in communities with the lowest quality of care by offering healthcare and complimentary services that are easily accessible, holistic, evidence based and free from judgment.

“Abide was birthed when my third child was just a year old and I had a four and six-year-old at home, as well. Not to mention we (my husband and I) were homeschooling… A few years later I found myself pregnant again and at a pivotal time for the organization.

Raising small children and being pregnant while leading an organization is probably one of the most challenging experiences I have ever had, however, it has proved to be the most fruitful time in my life. It has given me the opportunity to re-envision what motherhood and entrepreneurship can look like when done in a healthy way.

Patience came with the understanding that I could only do so much with the time that I had, and I had to be ok with that. I had to trust and believe that the hard work I was putting in would eventually pay off, and it has.

The biggest success for me is birthing my babies at home and building a legacy for them through Abide. Seeing clearly the world around me and deciding that I can be part of the solution to the disparities I see or I can ignore them.

Waking up and building Abide from the ground up wasn’t for me. It’s for my children and my children’s children. I want the future of Black maternal health to change for them and many more. ”

Like many nonprofit founders, Smith saw a need and did something about it. Abide provides pre and post-natal care, free pregnancy testing, postpartum doula support, and material goods such as hygiene products, diapers, and formula.

During COVID-19, Smith pivoted the work to provide on demand deliveries to mothers who needed resources including dropping off diapers at homes in the Dallas area. Dedicated to changing the dismal statistics for Black mothers, Smith and her team of midwifes are motivated to make a difference.

“To be honest, I wish Abide didn’t have to exist. If it weren’t for the rate of Black maternal death in this country, it wouldn’t. Abide is important because it provides a place of refuge. A place of safety for Black mothers. A place where they can feel free to be themselves, a place where they are heard and their lived experiences matter. A place that address biases that in the end kill Black women. Abide is necessary in every city.”

Smith is hopeful and despite the odds that Black women face as mothers and as nonprofit leaders, she offers some sage advice: “Rest. Resist. Restore. You don’t have to do everything. It’s ok to say no. You matter and your health is more important than any deadline. Don’t underestimate the power you have to influence people, policy and the culture around you. Don’t be afraid to create the life you want and the life you desire for your team to have. Take time to reimagine a life where the whole of your being is restored through a bold act of rest and resistance. And don’t forget to celebrate.”

As COVID highlighted the existing disparities in healthcare for the Black community, some progress is being made to address this issue on a federal level. Senators Kirsten Gillibrand (D-NY) and Corey Booker (D-NJ) and Representatives Alma Adams (D-NC) and Lauren Underwood (D-IL) introduced The Black Maternal Health Momnibus Act of 2021. This legislation includes 12 bills to address the maternal health crisis and its disproportionate impact on Black women.

As we celebrate women like Cessilye Smith for their tireless efforts and advocacy, there is still more needed to care for and protect Black women and babies.

To support Abide or learn more about this S. Dallas clinic, visit https://www.abidewomen.org/

Dr. Froswa’ Booker-Drew is the host of the Tapestry Podcast and the author of three books for women. She is also the Vice President of Community Affairs for the State Fair of Texas. To learn more, visit drfroswa.com.