BIG MAMA SAID: Opportunity is just Preparation

By Terry Allen

Lucille “Big Mama” Allen, the guiding light of wisdom and faith in our family, often reminded us that every blessing begins with preparation.
“Opportunity is just preparation’s thanksgiving, happening in your face.”
Big Mama believed in the power of preparation, reminding us that success is not about luck—it’s about being ready when opportunity knocks. She knew that being prepared for an opportunity, even when one doesn’t seem to be in sight, is the true key to unlocking the future.

Many believe that luck is all about being prepared to accept opportunities. The famous saying, “Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity,” reveals that success doesn’t come by chance. Instead, it’s about the work we put in when no one is watching.

Take, for example, LeBron James, who has not only prepared himself as one of basketball’s greatest players but has also influenced opportunities for others—especially his own family. Recently, his influence helped pave the way for his son, Bronny James, to secure a spot with the Lakers.

This moment underscores the importance of preparation, not just for yourself, but for creating opportunities for those you care about. LeBron’s vision and determination show how preparation can transform potential into reality.

Furthermore, the incredible journey of Tyler Perry—from homelessness to becoming a billionaire—serves as another shining example of preparation meeting opportunity. Perry’s relentless work ethic and unshakable belief in his craft positioned him to seize opportunities that have now made him a powerhouse in entertainment and philanthropy. His story is a testament to the resilience and readiness needed to overcome life’s obstacles and achieve greatness.

Lucille “Big Mama” Allen taught us that life is full of opportunities, but they mean little if we’re not prepared to seize them. I challenge you: be ready for the opportunity that is right in front of you.

Write to me at terryallenpr@gmail.com and share your stories of how you were prepared when the moment arrived.

Terry Allen is an NABJ award-winning journalist, DEI expert, PR professional, and founder of the charity – Vice President at FocusPR, Founder of City Men Cook, and Dallas Chapter President of NBPRS.org.